Thursday, November 6, 2014
23 weeks
How far along? 23 weeks. Thank you all for your support in getting me through last week. It means so much to me that people care so much.
What's happening with baby? Baby girl's sense of movement is developed. She is about the size of a mango (which I've been having for breakfast this week). She can hear well, which means that I need to knock off the dirty words.
Total weight gain: +1 from last week, for a total of 6
Maternity clothes? Nope. I've come to the point now where I'm refusing to buy them because it's hoodie season, and hey, that works.
Stretch marks? Nope. Please stay that way.
Sleep: I usually wake up now around 3 or 4 am and can't go back to sleep. Yay? Maybe I should take advantage and just start my day that early and get a ton of stuff done!
Miss Anything? Eggs over easy. Soft serve ice cream. Sushi.
Best moment this week: We made it past 22 weeks. Only 1 week to viability.
Difficulties this week: I thought it would be easier once we got past 22 weeks and 4 days. But now everything is bittersweet. She will be doing things that Conner and Ben never got to do. I never got enough time with my boys.
Movement: Still a pro
Food cravings/aversions: Dairy aversion is starting to subside. I'm eating everything in sight. Last night, we made porkchops for dinner with rice and veggies. Then two hours later, we went out to eat second dinner. I had chicken pot pie and a piece of french silk pie. And I could have eaten more, too.
Symptoms: Swelling and acne is back. But other than that, I feel pretty good.
Looking forward to: My dad is painting her nursery in a couple of weeks. I have reservations about this, though. I sat in the boys' room and looked around and realized I'd have to take the puppies off their walls. I'm thinking of taking them down and making a scrapbook of them so we still have them. Tim reminded me that there can be puppies on beaches, so I plan to keep two puppies on the wall with Conner and Ben's dresser. It's their room, too.
We finally got 3d pictures of this little girl during the OB appointment today. Her hands were still in front of her face (like Ben), but she moved around enough for us to get a good look at her. I think she looks like Conner! Which means she looks like me. I'm not going to post the pictures here, though - most of you know the 3d pictures sometimes turn out super creepy and we haven't showed our family yet, either. But baby girl is doing well and we are going to pick up paint samples for her room/the boys' nursery today. Hopefully I'll be posting her upate next week - viability! Also, if anyone has a suggestion on what else to call "viability" - I'm all ears. I hate that word. "I have a viable business plan" - not "I have a viable baby."
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Baby C,
Benjamin,
Conner,
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How cute are you! Happy 23 weeks!
ReplyDeleteThank you Caroline!
DeleteI'm so happy you are now at 23w and are just 1 week away from V-Day! I can definitely understand that it's bittersweet despite your love for baby girl. And you're right. You did NOT get enough time with your boys. But they will always be with you (with all of you) and you will always be their mommy. I love the idea of keeping some puppies on the kids' wall.
ReplyDeleteLOL to the 2nd dinner! I'm glad the aversions are starting to subside! EAT ALL THE THINGS!!!
Lastly: You look beautiful :-)
You are just the sweetest!
DeleteYay for 23 weeks!!!! What a cute bump you're sporting there :) I'm looking forward to the day when I can eat one dinner, then I'll work on a second, haha! Love the idea of the puppies on the beach. We only picked out Jack's paint never started decorating but we wanted to do elephants and thought about putting one random elephant in this guy's room too. I hope you post the 3d pics after you show the family, I love those pics I don't think theyre creepy at all :)
ReplyDeleteWhen you want to eat second dinner, call me and I'll join you lol
DeleteLady, you are glowing! It's great to see a post from you. I'm glad that baby C is kicking up a storm.
ReplyDeleteI know the last couple weeks were trying and I know the next probably will be too. I remember hitting the 114 days, when Preston had been gone longer than he was alive. Everything was like you said, bittersweet. With time, it subsides. I don't know if that makes it easier or worse. I think it's just that you find a way to cope.
As for a better word... Hope becomes reality? Not really a word, but it's what came to me.
Keep doing what you are doing mama. One day at a time. Keeping you close to my heart and in my thoughts. Sending you whatever strength I have to get through the next few weeks.
What you said about Preston reminds me of something I read once... everyday is a new loss, because we always wonder what they would be doing today. As always, thank you for your support. Thinking of you this month as Preston's birthday comes up.
DeleteLove these weekly updates! No matter how you do her nursery your boys' spirits will always be felt in their room. I like vitality instead of viability.
ReplyDeleteI like that word better too :)
DeleteHappy 23 weeks! I love your little bump :) I know what you mean about the 3D pictures being creepy. I prefer the cute little 2D profile pictures. I'm so excited for you to reach V-day. I hope that the rest of this weeks flies by!
ReplyDeleteThank you! I think the 3d ones can be cute but sometimes they get blurry and make the baby look, well, weird. I like the 2d ones too
Delete23 weeks, that is great! You look wonderful and so happy!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteCute bump! I look so bog compared to you.
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