Thursday, September 18, 2014

Whale, whale, whale....(16 weeks)


First of all, I have to apologize for being MIA for a week.  Bad little blogger, bad!  I've been swamped with grad school, work, and looking for houses (but I'll save that for a later post).  While I haven't been blogging, I've also been busy growing a real bump. 





I'll tell you what we have here: a baby bump that appeared overnight.  One that maybe looks more like a baby than an extra helping of spaghetti. I wore yoga pants and a tight tank top for this picture so that you could see what I am talking about, since you can't really tell when I'm in any other clothes. Soon I'll be the size of a whale.  I cannot wait.

How far along? 16 weeks!  The coveted 16 weeks, when mom can finally stop shopping (or in my case, window shopping) in the sea of gender neutral clothes (which are, in my opinion, extremely boring).
What's happening with  baby?  Baby is the size of an avocado (mmm guacamole).  Ears and eyes are starting to move into their final positions. And my favorite - baby is growing toenails. Tim told his sister when the boys came out, the first thing he saw was feet with little toenails.  What he wouldn't do to save those little feet.
Total weight gain: Two pounds. Uterus is measuring perfect at 16 weeks. Doctor is happy with that, but he did make a joke about how I shouldn't be afraid to eat and that it doesn't look like I eat much.  Tim said I like I eat a lot of expensive things.  What I didn't tell the doctor was that last night between 11 pm and midnight, I ate a peanut butter sandwhich, a grilled cheese, and a piece of pizza. And three bottles of water.
Maternity clothes?  Just a belly band for now
Stretch marks? Nada, but I'm not really paying attention either.
Sleep: Still staying up late and waking up late.
Miss Anything?  Eating dinner without barfing.  I've been sick almost everyday this past week.
Differences between Baby C and Conner and Ben at this point: Big one - a few days ago, I started feeling Baby C move!  I have been feeling little kicks and tumbles ever since.  With the twins, I was 17 weeks and 6 days before I realized what I was feeling were the babies moving and not gas. They say when you are pregnant the second time around, you are more attune to what those movements are.  I knew what to look for this time, and little baby is moving as I type this (probably because I am also eating pineapple pizza).
Best moment this week:  Debating between the gender scan or feeling this little one move for the first time! OB appointment went really well.  Cervix is high and closed and my OB is really happy that the 17p shots start tomorrow.  He said once I got to 28 weeks, he could start to relax a little bit.  It was kind of nice to hear a doctor so concerned about this baby. Also, even though we are not done with prenatal screening yet (second blood test is next week), our chances of genetic abnormalities are extremely low - everything came back at less than 1%.  I can't remember all the numbers except that Trisomy 18 was 1 in 8,100.  I hope that with the next (and last) screening, we have great news as well.
Emotions:  Is anxiety an emotion?
Difficulties this week:  I'm afraid once we announce this pregnancy, people will forget about Benjamin and Conner even more than they already have.  We invited close friends and family to a memorial at the hospital that happens in a couple weeks, and no one is going.  Some people didn't even bother to respond back to me about it. Those boys deserve better.
Movement:  See above. Hell yeah!
Food cravings/aversions: Not really discriminating anymore.  Depending on the time of day, everything is good or everything make me want to barf.
Symptoms: Still haven't been called for that Proactiv/Noxema/Clearisil commercial yet.
Happy or Moody most of the time:  Moody.  Poor husband.
Looking forward to: Our pregnancy announcement... maybe this weekend?

OK.... I know you have all been waiting for this gender announcement.  Please don't hate me, but I have decided that we're going to keep that a secret until we tell our family and friends that we are pregnant.  I think the guilt of keeping this baby a secret from them is catching up to me.  I hope to tell you all soon!  I will say this though - this little baby WOULD NOT STOP MOVING.  I was pretty sure we weren't going to get a read and we would have to wait until next week.  I kept trying to guess the gender while this little baby kept bouncing around.  But finally, we saw what we had finally been waiting for.  I even let Tim take me to Babies R Us afterwards.  AND I finally took that Babies R Us catalog from the OB's office home today.



Hey, thanks for pressing your legs together during the gender scan. 


21 comments:

  1. Adorable bump! So happy your appointment went so well and baby is dancing away.

    I'm sorry no one is going to the memorial (((hugs))). You're right, the boys deserve so much better.

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  2. I'm going to say girl :) Can't wait til you share! I know your families are going to be over the moon!

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  3. There it is! A BUMP! I see it! I will definitely say that you will most certainly NOT look like a whale. Even if you do get large and in charge, whale like will not be what you are. Promise ;) Tiny girl!!

    If I lived closer I would be at the memorial in a heart beat! I'm actually quite sad I will miss it, but I will be there in spirit. I really am excited for you to share with your families and I'm looking forward to that post!!! XOXOXOX

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  4. GAH! Okay I will wait (im)patiently until you spill the beans :-) So glad you're already feeling movement!

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    1. LOL hopefully I can write about the gender reveal soon!

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  5. What a cute little bump! And you are DEFINITELY not a whale - I can show you a whale (me!). That is fantastic news that the first round of tests came back with such great results.

    I am sorry to hear that no one is coming to the memorial. I am sure no one has forgotten the boys, and if anything once you announce that will cause them to remember the boys even more.

    Good luck with the announcement! So exciting! Just think - a baby brother or sister for Benjamin and Conner! I am sure they are watching over you, Tim and this little one.

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    1. Oh, I am SURE you are not a whale! And thank you for your support

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    1. We need to go maternity shopping together soon!

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  7. I'm so happy to hear that everything looks great with Baby C!! I love looking at your ultrasounds so that I can also see where my little girl is at! I hope you guys have a fantastic time announcing the pregnancy to your family and friends!

    I'm sorry to hear that no one is going to the boys' memorial. That is heart breaking but I hope you know that you have all the ladies (and men!) reading your blog who will be with you and your husband in spirit and sending you both strength and love! Hugs to you!

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    1. I owe you an email! I'm getting to it, I promise. I hope you and your little one are doing well! Thank you for your support.

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  8. Congrats on a great scan! I hope the rest of the screening results bring good news too! That's so exciting that you can feel Baby C moving around already. And of course, your little bump is so cute :)

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  9. Yay! Your bump is darling. I know what you mean about being so busy. I've been MIA on the blog front too but so nice to see a post from you!

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    1. Same with you! I get excited when I see your updates. I hope you are doing well!

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  10. Sorry I've been MIA. I'm so behind on commenting on friendly blogs and replying to comments on mine..

    Love the pictures. You look fabulous as does baby C. I'm glad that everything is going well and don't feel bad about not sharing your baby's gender. I think all your readers are just happy that everything is going well. Keep it up baby C!!

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    1. Dont even worry about it! Sometimes it takes me awhile to get caught up too. And thank you!

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